While you're waiting, I want to show you something.

You've got the system. You know how to flip the signals, create attraction, escalate. All of that is handled.

But there's something most guys don't realize, and it took me a long time to figure this out myself.

There's a difference between a woman being attracted to you and a woman being aroused by you.

They're not the same thing. And most guys don't realize they've been chasing the wrong one.

Attraction gets her interested. Gets her on the date. Gets her back to your place.

Arousal is what happens after the door closes.

A friend of mine put together a short video that breaks down exactly how this works.

Fair warning: it's raw, it's explicit, and it pissed off a lot of people when it came out.

But every guy I've sent it to has told me the same thing: "Why didn't I know this sooner?"